Many women today found the power of the cell phone. They pick up their phone and start texting that hot guy that they find to be so attractive and appealing. The texting is going great so far. He is answering your texts and is even interested in meeting up with you for some coffee. However, by the next day, he seems like he is not responding to you anymore. You finally get tired of texting him and ask, “Are we still going to hang out” by voice mail. He never responds to you. As you look at your phone, you realized that you exchanged multiple texts and yet he is now standing you up. What did you do wrong?
For starters, most guys don’t like to be texted unless they text you first. Yes, you are afraid of losing him, but if you text him too much, he doesn’t like it. If a guy starts to text you a lot, he means that he likes you. He finds you to be sexy enough to want to date and get to know. He can be strong and happy at the same time. His energy is all out there waiting to hang out with you. The energy around him is starting to show for the better. Texting someone for a long time means that they may or may not be interested in you. If you find this happening a lot, it means that you are chasing him and he is not interested. Instead, turn this around for yourself. Allow him to text you first and keep the messages short. As he texts, tell him that you are busy and would like to meet up with him tomorrow. If he says yes, you know he is really interested.